Took my truck into the shop this morning to have a couple of minor (fingers crossed) issues taken care of. I ran into a few guys who I used to work with and one of them flat out asked me – why did you get that surgery? You aren’t fat! You look fine the way you are!
Well, first of all, thank you to those of you who think I looked fine before, and let me give you the number of a really good eye doctor. Seriously though, is our society becoming so used to seeing EVERY one over weight that we now see someone who is ‘just 100 lbs overweight’ as normal??? I mean come on, yes I am a little on the taller side for a woman, and was blessed/cursed with the genes that spread it out all over the body (read big butt, big boobs here), but honestly without my clothes you’d throw up in your mouth a little bit – who am I kidding – a LOT. When you are shopping in the Plus sized clothes racks, it should be your first indication that you may be overweight. If your clothes have an “X” in the size, you might be overweight. If you have to reach down and help your foot up so you can tie your shoe, you might be overweight. See where I’m heading with this?
Now, don’t get all huffy and mad at me for saying those things. They are TRUE. And Hey, if you are overweight and happy about it, more power to you, enjoy your life and all the challenges that the extra weight brings. I’m a live and let live type of gal, not my business. I personally have chosen to do something about the weight.
This brings me once again to the WHY did I have surgery question. My number one reason is because of my high blood pressure . I am still on 2 medications and FINALLY got it under control right before surgery. It was not uncommon for me to check it and find that top number was close to 200 (Yes two hundred) and the bottom around 150 (one fifty). One of the medications I am on (even with insurance) costs me over $60 a month. Yes you read that right. That’s two months of water bills, or 4 bags of horse feed, or a tank of gas for my truck. NOT acceptable. This is not even counting the other two meds.
People can’t look at you and tell that you have high blood pressure, well maybe a RN or MD can look and see some signs that we lay people can’t see. To look at me you would think, why she’s healthy, just look at her always on the go – riding horses, working on the farm, plus an outside job. She’s GOT to be healthy. Ummmm, nope. I just didn’t give in to my body and what it was telling me. My GP doctor told me flat out that if I didn’t loose the weight that one day I would have either a stroke or heart attack. May not be tomorrow, but I have been playing Russian roulette with my health. THAT got my attention. Dying young is not on my list of things I want to do. Being in a vegetative or handicapped state is not either!! So I decided to do something to correct the problem….
I believe that there is something in my genetic make up that predisposed me to be fat. My Mom is overweight, Aunt Brenda was (until her surgery 5 years ago), my maternal grand mother was overweight, and all the way up the family tree on that side for as far back as we have photographs, the women are overweight. You could blame the down home cooking, or whatever else you like, but I will always believe that there is a gene in my code somewhere that is running around like Paul Revere telling my body that a great famine is coming, store up all the fat that you can!!
Diets do not work for me. I have probably lost and regained my current weight at least 3 times over the last 10 years or so. I had to do something permanent and drastic. And this is the path that I chose. It may not be the right path for anyone else, but right now I’m happy with the decision and don’t expect to ever look back. Take some advice from the Band Boston:
Don’t look back, a new day is breakin
It’s been too long since I felt this way
I don’t mind where I get taken
The road is callin, today is the day
I can see, it took so long just to realize
I’m much too strong not to compromise
Now I see what I am is holding me down
I’ll turn it around
I finally see the dawn arrivin
I see beyond the road I’m drivin
It’s a bright horizon and I’m awaken
I see myself in a brand new way
The sun is shinin, the clouds are breakin
Cause I can’t lose now, there’s no game to play
I can tell there’s no more time left to criticize
I’ve seen what I could not recognize
Everything in my life was leading me on,
But I can be strong
I finally see the dawn arrivin
I see beyond the road I’m drivin
Don’t look back, a new day is breakin
It’s been so long since I felt this way
I don’t mind where I get taken
The road is callin, today is the day
I can see, it took so long just to realize
I’m much too strong not to compromise
Now I see what I am is holding me down
I’ll turn it around
I finally see the dawn arrivin
I see beyond the road I’m drivin
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